tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695189.post6911986418095039543..comments2023-11-05T03:50:24.092-07:00Comments on R.G.N.A.: Is Waiting REALLY the Hardest Part?leanerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09025920894148533859noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695189.post-40386022994340688032009-01-31T11:30:00.000-07:002009-01-31T11:30:00.000-07:00After living the military life, I feel for you.. I...After living the military life, I feel for you.. I am saddened for you.. I hope for the best for you..Everyday Mom Designshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17396980274146378911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695189.post-66729753732092676692009-01-30T17:15:00.000-07:002009-01-30T17:15:00.000-07:00I can't imagine. I hope for the best upon his retu...I can't imagine. I hope for the best upon his return. It's tough when you are together all the time and can freely communicate. Being separate for a year has got to be... astronomically difficult. Let's hope excitement overrides the difficult stuff.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05988232360759413314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695189.post-11792653818680483522009-01-30T10:21:00.000-07:002009-01-30T10:21:00.000-07:00I agree, Lisa. However, having him be gone on many...I agree, Lisa. However, having him be gone on many occasions- I know how hard it is for him to be home after that. Hard on us all. I just don't want to put on my rose colored glasses and totally ignore the possibility that things are going to be hard. <BR/><BR/>(Plus- this was more of an abstract! I mean those are things my kids do, but its more of an abstract idea of deployment.) <BR/><BR/>Homey- He should be. I haven't had word otherwise. So fingers crossed!leanerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09025920894148533859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695189.post-67993513947041152862009-01-30T09:08:00.000-07:002009-01-30T09:08:00.000-07:00it's got to be so hard learning to be together aga...it's got to be so hard learning to be together again after so long. hopefully not as hard as being apart, but hard enough. <BR/><BR/>speaking of, is will going to be able to come home for your anniversary?Homeslicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01608640942776386418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8695189.post-9234987042869801362009-01-30T08:07:00.000-07:002009-01-30T08:07:00.000-07:00You bring up some very valid points. But do keep ...You bring up some very valid points. But do keep in mind that just because it *could* be even tougher once he's back, doesn't mean that it *will* be. I'm not saying things will be all wonderful (although I suppose that's possible, too). I'm just a big believer in "self-fulfilling prophecy" where what you focus on/expect can very easily end up being the reality you create for yourself. And things are hard enough as they are. I think you're very smart to be mindful of the potential difficulties that may lie ahead, but try not to dwell on them *too* much, ok? (Yeah, right, this coming from the Queen of Worrying).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com